***Edited to add some pictures**
Super long title, I know!
When I do Tays top two I always try to bring it back to my baby--because that is the heart of what my blog is about, and the reason I am blogging, my little bear: Timothy!
So here are the two things I've learned about friendship post baby.
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| Tina with Timothy |
1.) Announcing you are pregnant to your friends-- will show you how much they love you. Especially if they are single or don't have or don't want babies. Now, this may not be eveyones experience, but for me.. My closest and best friends, were so happy for me! And my single gal pals would listen with wide eyes to all my stories about how terrible my pregnancy was going between projectile vomiting and loving wearing maternity pants.
{And by the way, what is up with ladies not wanting maternity clothes anymore? I mean, shirts, I get. Because sometimes you can look like a tent in them. But jeans, shorts, pants and skirts! I loved wearing maternity bottoms!! I contemplate wearing them now when I am going out for a big dinner, just to have that extra room! Haha! Yep, I am that in love with food! :)}
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| And my sweet Heth with Timothy... I love this picture.. because this is a perfect example of the fun Heth and Timothy have together!! :) |
2.) Having a baby made me a better friend-- in my opinion anyway! To find out for sure, you may want to ask my friends. Haha! But in all seriousness-- after having Timothy, and spending time in the hospital watching him fight and grow strong, friendships mean so much more to me. I have been randomly texting my best gal pals and telling them how much they mean to me, sending them flowers and gifts and hugging them more than I already did! (I'm a BIG hugger!) Plus, I always tell them I love them, because I do!
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| At the baby blackwell bbq bash.. ten days before Timothy made his debut! |
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| Don't ask.. I felt like I needed to throw in a little old school.. since everyone else did... and yeah, we really were that awkward! |
Anyway, those are my top two! Hop on over to Tay's and play along!!
*Also, I thought about this after I posted... My parents have always told me to try to have 5 friends in life that I could count no matter what. The kind of friends I could call at 3:00 am and say, "I need you" and they were on the next plane, train or automobile without even asking what I needed. I am very fortunate that I can rattle those five off to you in a heartbeat.. a few because I have had to test this statement on them.. (Not for testing purposes solely, but because I really needed them!












































